How does The Law of Attraction really work?

"What is the Law of Attraction? How does the Law of Attraction actually work?"

The Law of Attraction, often abbreviated as LOA, points to a universal mechanism that cannot be escaped by any of us--hence the word "law."

The Law of Attraction is inescapable in the sense that, as long as we exist, we will be affecting the reality that we perceive. The perceiver and the perceived are more one and the same than we often realize. We cannot cease to attract to us the experiences that reflect what we are vibrating (thinking, feeling, believing, being) in each moment.

In short: What you send out is what you get back. Your frequency determines the reality you will experience. Your vibration of being activates the Law of Attraction in a specific way, making the things in your life appear a certain way, as a reflection of what you "send out."

Hence, physical life--circumstances--are like a mirror, reflecting you. You cannot change the reflection in the mirror without changing yourself. This is the key you really need to understand before you can use the Law of Attraction positively and deliberately. 

Understanding that Everything is Energy, and How It Affects the Law of Attraction

If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.
— Nikola Tesla

Everything is energy.

I'm sure you've heard this term somewhere in recent years, whether suggested to you by a spiritual teacher, a long-deceased genius, a New Age affirmation card, or a modern quantum scientist. 

In the rest of this article--after this section--I am going to assume you are already a believer of the statement "everything is energy" enough to where we can move on from the debate about whether or not this physical universe is truly physical, separate, and governed by randomly generated physical laws, or whether physicality is an illusion of consciousness held up by complex electromagnetic fields and equations, and beyond that, by the subtlest reality of quantum configurations/fluctuations.

If everything is energy, this also means that everything is connected, and this is where the concept of energy starts to play into how the Law of Attraction actually works in our daily lives.

Everything we call real is made of things that cannot be regarded as real. If quantum mechanics hasn’t profoundly shocked you, you haven’t understood it yet.
— Niels Bohr

In energy, true separation is not possible in the way that it seems to be possible in the illusion of the physical world. Whereas in the physical illusion you can take one object, separate it into two parts, move part A to China and part B to America, perceive their physical distance from one another and call that "separation," at a quantum-energetic level, communication continues to exist between "particles," regardless of time and space, distance, and physical separation. 

This is often referred to as "quantum entanglement," which is a proven and well-documented phenomenon. If you are still skeptical of the statement "everything is energy" and "everything is connected" and "you attract what you think of," you can look up quantum entanglement.

In today's world, the interconnectedness of all energy that makes up matter is as much real scientific knowledge as it is intuitively known by every creature in existence. If you trust the instinct that knows that everything is somehow connected to everything else, and that what we perceive physically is nothing but energy in communication with itself at different frequencies, then you're set to start using the Law of Attraction deliberately in your life.

How does frequency and vibration play into the Law of Attraction, and how can you make conscious use of the Law of Attraction?

If you understand that everything is energy, you can also understand that everything you think, believe and feel consists of energy. Your attitude--or focus--vibrates, and those vibrations affect the quantum fields that underly, constitute and determine the outcome of physical matter. Hence: your focus has the power to alter the appearance of your physical circumstances.

This is the Law of Attraction in its simplest definition: What you focus on, you will attract more of into your experience.

Now, let's break this down into a few more steps to gain a deeper understanding.

What you focus on--and from what point of view, belief-system, or assumption you focus on it--will determine how your focus makes you feel.

When you feel good, it means that your vibratory field is aligning itself--synthesizing, harmonizing--with the deeper vibrational fields (truths/laws) of existence itself. Your vibrations start to match that of higher levels of reality/consciousness.

In other words, when you focus on things--and focus on them in a way that makes your being feel truly good and expanded--those good feeling states are the body's translation of how in sync you are with the totality of the universe. The better you feel, the more truthful and in alignment with the totality of life you literally are.

This is why we feel good when we focus on something that makes us feel like we can do anything we truly desire (I'm not talking about your perceived neediness, but rather your true heart's desires), and why we feel bad when we focus on a thought that makes us think we cannot achieve anything we truly want because we are lacking skill, worthiness or resources, for example.

In the first example--where we focus on abundance and feel good--we feel good because we are focused along the vibrational lines of believing in endlessness, vastness, innate worthiness, limitless possibility, and abundance. We feel good because we are getting in tune with universal truths. These are true vibrations that are able to harmonize with and include--instead of oppose--all of existence.

Hence, when we think along these lines (or wavelengths), we will start to feel better and better because we are literally tuning our individual frequencies to align with the most fundamental vibratory wavelengths of the totality of existence itself. Yep.

In this way, we are powerful co-creators; we are magnificent Free Agents of Infinite Consciousness with a near infinite ability to generate our experience of life. We have the ability to focus our vibration in alignment with the innate love, light, power and endlessness of this Infinite Existence which contains infinite possibilities.

Through deliberate training of our focus, we can literally tap into limitless possibilities, and channel that into physical manifestation. I've seen some weird stuff happen. But most of all I've seen some amazing things happen that benefitted many, many beings and found solutions to impossible problems--all as a result of deliberately using the Law of Attraction.

Law of Attraction is Universal, and every person is affected by it. And it is always true that what I think and what I feel and what I get are always a match, and there is not a person on the planet that did not know that when they were born, and there is not a person on the planet that would not benefit by knowing it.
— Abraham Hicks

We also feel less and less separate when we align with perspectives that are rooted in limitless possibilities, infinite abundance and unconditional acceptance or love. We feel less separate because we are literally aligning our frequencies with the frequency of "everythingness" or "oneness."

Through this practice of focusing our vibration into abundance instead of lack, we are becoming more like the universe itself, and so naturally we feel less abandoned and separate. Instead, we start to experience ourselves as an intricate, inseparable and valued part of the whole that is unconditionally supported in its desire to express infinity in a unique way. We feel purpose and inspiration return to our bloodstreams; we feel alive and powerful again, in a humbled and non-egoic way. We feel at One with Creation.

This is the state to aim for, as it contains the manifestations that all of our shared hearts truly desire, and infinitely more.

How are we calling upon the Law of Attraction when we feel bad?

In the second example--where we focus on a lack of worthiness or a lack of having the resources to achieve what we truly desire (as an example)--we feel bad, depressed and separate from the magnificence of All-That-Is. Why?

It is because we are actively focusing our vibrations into a wavelength that is very sharp, dispersed and out of sync with the underlying wavelengths of creation itself. We are playing out of tune, and as such, we cut ourselves off from being able to experience the support and fullness that is--in essence--always available to us.

When we focus on a lack of love, resources, worthiness, ability, time, opportunity--or any other type of lack--we are actively separating ourselves from being in harmony with the universe, because the only thing that does not truly exist within this Infinite creation is lack.

So, when we focus down the tunnel-vision of a thought that believes the only thing this infinite existence does not compute with as being "real," which is lack, then the body, of course, translates this into a bad feeling state, such as a feeling of separation, isolation, demotivation, sadness or depression.

Focusing on lack of ANYTHING will misalign you and create suffering, which in turn, will attract reflections from your circumstances and your physical world that match that vibration. The Law of Attraction always has to match your vibration in the things it brings to you. Remember: your physical life mirrors you, and only you.

Also remember, this is not mysterious or vague. It occurs because you are actively affecting the quantum fields underlying the physical illusion of matter. So, when you feel bad by focusing on or from the belief in lack--the only thing that does not exist in all of existence--you are literally sending out an "off" vibration into these quantum equations that will then start to organize your perceived physical universe in a representing manner: chaos, a blocked flow and disruption.

Mind Your Frequency--How to Use the Law of Attraction Deliberately

In Trinfinity Academy I teach step-by-step how to become aware of yourself as Consciousness, and how to deliberately use this to empower your life to no end and become one in your realizations with the Universe itself. I recommend you check it out, if you are interested in going into this in depth. However, here is the short version so you can start practicing this principle and start seeing real benefits in your life and in others' lives.

The most important thing to understand when deliberately using the Law of Attraction is that it is more important to feel good than to have what you want. Here's why:

When you focus on things that make you feel good, and when you focus from perspectives/beliefs that make you feel good, remember: you are harmonizing yourself with infinite potentiality. Everything becomes possible for you.

Now, when you focus specifically on what you want, this might raise your frequency, harmonizing your individual vibration with that of the Universe's underlying truths, and thus make you feel good. However, when you focus on HAVING what you want (needing it to be in your life), oftentimes you inevitably focus on the apparent lack of what it is you want being in your life right now.

So, for many people, focusing on what they want to HAVE, is actually detrimental to their harmonization process because they will feel bad by thinking that they are presently LACKING the HAVING of what they want. Thinking more about what they want can sometimes shift their vibration into excitement, as long as they can feel the probability of it entering their life not too far down the line, but often, it simply reminds them of their perceived fact that "it's not here yet." 

This negative-feedback loop is very important to understand before you continue to "visualize your desired realities."

Focus on Abundance, Forget about Lack

Got it? You have to focus on abundance--any kind of abundance--in order to harmonize with the Infinite potential and positively utilize the Law of Attraction.

Thinking about what you want can either feel great, or terrible, depending on whether you focus on it from the perspective of the abundance of it and the possibility and probability of it streaming into your life--and the peace you experience right now in simply enjoying the fullness of the feeling of what you are visualizing and desiring--or whether you are thinking about what you desire from the point of view of believing it is lacking, difficult or impossible to achieve, etc. 

Thus, when an untrained or unseasoned practitioner of the Law of Attraction focuses on what they desire, it can often make them feel worse and hinder their deliberate use of the Law of Attraction by focusing through the belief that what they want is not theirs yet.

For those who have gone through my Trinfinity Academy, or who have seen many of my videos on Youtube, you will know (and may have mastered to some degree) the ability to see that, even when something is not physically present, that does not mean it is lacking from your life. Those adepts will be able to focus upon what they desire, even while they don't have any physical evidence of it yet in their present circumstances, and continue to harmonize into higher and higher frequencies, because they are still perceiving the abundance of what they desire. They perceive no lack, they think no lack, they feel no lack. 

However, for those of you new to the science of the Law of Attraction, or to my overall teachings in general, it will be harder to think of all the wondrous and epic realities you desire in your future, while not feeling the sour note of perceiving the lack of it now.

So for you, until you get the chance to study in greater depth and discover that nothing is ever lacking from existence; until you learn to truly enjoy the vibration of things that are not yet physically manifest, I recommend you focus less on visualizing or thinking of the specific things that you want, and first practice on focusing on abundance and goodness and support and love in general. This way, you will start to experience what it's like to vibrate and harmonize at higher and higher frequencies.

When you are resonating at/with higher frequencies, you will start to get insights and thoughts and impulses that are representative of those higher frequencies that you did not have access to before. Just as you hear the songs playing through your radio that correspond to the frequency you are tuned into, so too, you will never have access to brilliance if you are de-harmonized with the foundational truths of Creation.

So first things first: learn to focus predominantly on anything--ANYTHING--that makes you feel holistically good, abundant, free, powerful, peaceful and loving.

Also, learn to focus on anything that you seemingly have to focus on (even when you don't want to focus on it), IN A WAY that feels best to you when you focus on it.

For example, you might have to focus on doing the laundry. This might not be your most exciting focal point, but you can always change the WAY you focus on it, so that it starts to include more and more perspectives that recognize the abundance and goodness of a particular reality. You can get to the point where you lose touch with perceiving a lack of excitement, goodness or abundance altogether--even while you are doing things that previously you would have perceived as causing you lack, and therefore would have de-harmonized you with the Universe.

Bottomline: Harmonize! Feel amazing. Master your focus and the way you look at things. Then, you will start to see amazing results pop up, because you are LITERALLY affecting the quantum configurations that determine the reality you will perceive/receive.

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
— Dr. Wayne Dyer


Summary of How the Law of Attraction Works:

Question: "How does the Law of Attraction truly work?"

Answer: It works by reflecting to you what you are focusing, or have focused upon, AND the way you are/have focused upon the things you are focused upon, and whether or not that focus or way of focusing is/has been in alignment with the underlying truths of the Universe.

If you learn to harmonize your frequency with that of the Universe--and you will know this is happening by how increasingly amazing you feel--the Law of Attraction will start to work for you. (Actually, it always already has worked for you, but it HAS to reflect you, for better or for worse--it is LAW.) Through your increased frequency and inspiration, you will be able to naturally channel this Law of Attraction to operate for the highest benefit of all, including yourself.

It’s not your work to make anything happen. It’s your work to dream it and let it happen. Law of Attraction will make it happen. In your joy, you create something, and then you maintain your vibrational harmony with it, and the Universe must find a way to bring it about. That’s the promise of Law of Attraction.
— Abraham Hicks

Now that you understand the basic premise of frequency and Law of Attraction, watch the following video to take your acceleration to the next level:

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Bentinho Massaro

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